Couples
composing of white women and black men
often have problem on thinking about what to do on their first date. Now, this
is usually a no-brainer, since one should know the other’s interests from
simple conversation. However, in the case of a lack of information, these
choices are always okay when playing safe.
Give Her
Flowers
This is
one of the easiest things to do, and also one of the easiest to take for
granted. Usually, men give the women flowers. This applies especially when you
would be dating a black man. Black gentlemen (Yes, only date gentlemen and
ladies) are most likely traditional, and will be taken aback when given
flowers. Let the black men do it for you.
Black
men, on the other hand, must know when it is appropriate to give flowers to
their ladies. A large bouquet is nice, but it is a hassle to carry around. Give
them flowers, of ample size, when they have somewhere to put it down. For
example, the center of a dinner table is a handy place for your date to put
down a single flower, but a flower is a hassle to carry around in a movie
theater. Also, white ladies find it sweet if you remember their favorite
flowers. ALWAYS remember to ask, and ask discreetly.
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Dinner
Now,
this is easy to get wrong, but when done right, is one of the staples of the
dating scene. Pick a place that is not too fancy; your lady will expect you to
maintain the fanciness in the future dates. Of course, the men will always have
to pay for at least part of the tab. But don’t pick place too casual! Your lady
deserves more than just fast food for dinner.
The
Movies
Before
you buy movie tickets, make you that you sneak in some clues to know what your
significant other would want to watch. For example, discreetly saying that you
wonder which movie will be nice to watch may elicit some clues on your
significant other’s preferences. But if you cannot decipher the one you’re
dating, then simply get tickets to a movie that you know will at least not bore
the other. A white lady would probably not want to watch hardcore gangster
films, and a black gentleman would probably not be interested on the life of
some guy named Shawn Berry. Show your consideration in the purchase of your
movie ticket, as the one you would be dating should start thinking that you
think of them, and not yourself.
Stargazing
Now this is an activity that may
seem unattractive at first, but you may have no idea how charming this would be
for their lady. Pick a spot in a quiet park, make sure that the skies are
clear, and lay down a picnic mat. If you have no idea about stars and
constellations, you can just admire the night sky with your loved one. Take out
a bottle of fine wine, some glasses, and light a candle to create a nice,
romantic atmosphere, and chat for hours!
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