White Women, Black Men Dating: Romantic USA Escapades

You have created the perfect online dating profile, you stated that you want to date white women, that you are adventurous, bon viveur and love traveling. You met this amazing lady and have been on a few dates with her and now you are officially in a relationship. Her birthday is approaching and you are thinking of a nice surprise. What about a long weekend trip to a romantic destination that will prove to her that you truly love adventure?

Savannah, Georgia

Hidden gardens, old oaks, tons of parks full of amazing flowers and trees, Savannah is the lovers' paradise. The city has many great restaurants and cafes and the people are famous for their hospitality. If you are looking for a quiet, romantic weekend, look no further. Savannah also has a College of Art and Design, so the crowd here is interesting as well.

 

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Maui, Hawaii

It might be a cliché, but for good reason. The golden sand, the turquoise waters, the volcanoes, the palm trees synthesize a natural environment of amazing beauty. Maui is pretty touristic, so going off season would be a good idea. Then you will be able to enjoy sunbathing, amazing seafood and total relaxation without little kids running around you.

Napa Valley, California

Imagine enjoying a top quality, locally produced wine, while admiring the view from your hot air balloon. That's right. Napa offers both. Famous for its vineyards for many years, this area of the US also has amazing natural scenery. You can find many resorts in the area, almost hidden in-between the vines, that will offer you any gourmet food and wine you request.

Montreal Bay, California

Let's stay in California a little while longer, this time by the sea. If you want to buy a house here, you would need to start saving from your previous life time. But this is why this area is worth visiting as a tourist. The coastline is of indescribable beauty, the seafood restaurants offer dishes that you will be dreaming for days and Del Monte forest adds to the magic. A truly unique area. You can stay in one of the many luxury resorts or take a short break here, while on a road trip.

Santa Fe, New Mexico

If your girl loves art, that is definitely the place to visit. Canyon Road is filled with galleries and exhibitions of famous artists take place throughout the year. The Spanish influence on architectures spices things up and the Gothic cathedrals are pretty impressive. The cuisine is spicy and delicious, the people a friendly, warm crowd.

Of course, whitewomen looking for black men are all different from each other. This means different tastes. Ask your girl is she prefers a quiet holiday or is more into bungee jumping, hiking, diving kind of adventure. Ask her is she loves luxury resorts or quiet beaches with just a hammock. Ask her if she prefers nightlife or early morning hikes. All these are quite strong clues that will help you to choose the best destination for the two of you. If you are filling insecure about your choice, you can always ask her. This way you also avoid taking her to a holiday that she has already enjoyed with her ex. It won't be a surprise any more, but you will enjoy your trip anyway! 

White women dating: The Importance Of Honesty

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If you have just entered the online dating scene and want to date black men, you are probably full of enthusiasm and curiosity. All the prospects of getting to know new cultures and traditions, when dating someone from another race, can definitely be very exciting. There is a danger hidden into this excitement though: forgetting what you want from dating. Both women and men make this mistake quite often. When we fall in love with someone we will do whatever it takes, in order to be with them. Sometimes we even tend to lose ourselves and mirror the person we have a crush on. Have you ever ended up at a football match, having no clue how you got there? Matching denim jackets anyone? That's what we are talking about! Finding love is great, but being honest is sometimes more important.

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Be honest to yourself

What is it that you are looking for right now? Do you want a boyfriend? A potential fiance? Do you just want a casual date and some fun? No matter what it is that you are looking for, keep that always in mind. If you meet someone who is interested in a casual, “friends with benefits” style of relationship and you want to get married, keep looking. Unfortunately, we sometimes believe that if we love the other person hard enough, they will eventually be on the same page with us, when it comes to dating. This is seldom the case though. White women looking for black men look for different things and that's OK. But what is it that YOU are looking for? If you do not have a definite answer and you are more flexible or choose to go with the flow, that's alright too. Still it is good to define some boundaries that you wouldn't like to cross. This will help you avoid being taken advantage of.

  Be honest with your date

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A relationship takes two to happen. This means that you need to be honest not only with your self, but with your date as well. You might find someone very attractive but not be able to give them what they are looking for. If you like them just because they have a gorgeous body but they are looking for romance, do not trick them into believing that this is what you are looking for as well. It can be tempting some times, but people will end up being really hurt and you will feel guilty about it.

Not speaking up is also lying

Yes, that's true. Lying is not just about giving false information about someone. It is also about letting people make the wrong assumptions and letting people believe that you go along with their choices. Again, you need to remind yourself that you cannot change others, unless they want to change. If your date does not want a committed relationship and you do, but say nothing about it, he is going to assume that you are fine with an open relationship as well. You might be afraid that you will come across as pushy, if you let him know what you want, but this is not the case. Yes, he might choose to stop seeing you, since you do not want the same things. But that is the right thing to do. Otherwise you would both waste your time.

Being honest about your life

Apart from what you want in a relationship, it goes without saying that you need to be honest about your life in general. Never give false information about your marital status, job, income, mental state. People who are interested enough to date you deserve to know who you really are, in order to decide if they want to spend more time with you. You deserve the same, of course!

5 Movies About White Women And Black Men Dating

If she has agreed to come over at your place to watch a movie, you are obviously doing something right. Choose one of the following great films to watch, to help convince her that your interracial romance is an absolutely great idea. If you make pop corn or guacamole to snack on, you get extra points!

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Guess Who's Coming to Dinner

This 1967 movie has won two Oscars and counts more than 20 nominations for various awards. A young lady meets, falls in love and gets engaged with a black doctor on her holidays. They fly back to her parent's hometown in order to introduce him to them, before they get married. The generally liberal family seems to be somewhat stunned by their daughter's choice and when the doctor's parents also fly to meet their future in-laws things become interesting. Oh, and there is a happy ending! All white women who want to date black men will love this classic.

Save The Last Dance

The love story of Sara and Derek, two dancers coming from very different backgrounds. Sara fails to enter Julliard and after her mother dies while rushing to get to her audition, she battles feelings of guilt. She moves in with her father and attends a school full of black students, who eventually invite her to join STEPPS, their dance club. There Sara meets Derek, who helps her improve her dancing style, by incorporating hip hop dance moves. A lot of things happen before the happy ending of this movie, that younger people will love.

A Patch of Blue

This is a proper drama. Girls love drama and the ending is relatively happy as well, so if you want to date white women who are sensitive, this movie is a great choice. The movie follows the story of a girl who was accidentally blinded by her mother, when she tried to throw chemicals on one of her lovers. The girl's mother is a prostitute and abusive and her grandfather an alcoholic. The girl meets a nice black man in the park, who is willing to help her improve her life. Her mother and grandfather will get in the way many times, filling the movie with suspense.

Othello

The 1995 version of the classic theater play features a really hot interracial couple. Laurence Fishburne as Othelo and Irene Jacob as Desdemona have to deal with the evil plans of Iago, played by Kenneth Branagh. Iago convinces Othelo that Desdemona has been unfaithful, in order to serve his own interest and what follows is a tragedy. Not a happy ending for this one, but if your date is into Shakespeare, she will appreciate it.

Crazy/Beautiful

In this film the starring couple are a white girl, Nicole and a Mexican-American guy, Carlos. The girl is haunted by her mother's suicide and feels unloved by her father, as he has another daughter with his second wife. When she is on community service on a beach she meets Carlos, who is a great student. Their worlds clash, her father interferes, a lot of things go wrong but the movie has a hopeful ending.

When choosing a movie to watch with your date, always be aware of possible triggers. If the movie contains abuse, rape scenes, drug use, suicide or even a serious illness, make sure your girl is fine with watching it. Especially when you do not know someone well, you might scratch wounds of the past unintentionally.